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Friday, April 28, 2017

SEXY BAR, 2003


 After I come back to Bangkok in 2003, I searching for a temporary low cost room.

Than I have the time to sell my business in Phattanakan / Bangkok

In that time I go many time to Soi 13/1 Sukhumvit, a around soi with only small bars  (now not more exist / all break down)

But there was a long small bar with a enorm glass-front. Name 'Sexy Bar'

This was a meeting place for many business people / joking with all the girls / good music.

But this bar had some specials what you not hear in other bars.

Of course you could shoot a girl for a long or short time, but there the girls had learned to make other money.  

In this years the girls where very cheap,  because there was a lot of competition with the other hundreds of bars on the corner of Asok. (also no more exist)

But in the 'Sexy Bar' there worked a girl call 'Deng', so told me how it works in their bar.

The good listeners to all the business people the visit this bar, the get good paid for there interests.

Some the get paid 2000 or 3000 THB, and the make there a lot of friends.

I ask one time the girl 'Deng' of she can help me on a small temporary room.

She  brought  me to Petchburi road / soi 12 near her room in the same Soi. But it was very small.

Only 1500THB a month.   (and no deposit)

Ok, I take the room and pay the owner 3 months in advance.

I had or want not a relation with this girl 'Deng' But after her work time, she always came and we eat together. Most of the time she sleep in her own room, but sometimes want stay / sleep with me. She was a lovely girl but also many times drunk. Than she told me, she was already 3 time married. Has a Thai kid from her first Thai-man / a kid from a Danish men / and a kid from her last one a French men.

It make me scary the single times that she sleep in my small room and not get pregnant again and become a international family.

But on everything comes an end, and also on these time.

I sold everything in Phattanakan, and moved over to a brand new condo in Nana / Sukhumvit.

Than one day, 'Deng' stay for my door (security let her in) she was total drunk and start screaming and break my door. The security bring her outside, and told her not to come back.

In the meantime the break also the buildings in Soi 13/1 and she lose her job and work.

When she was reasonable, I could help her, but she not like to talk more.

And lose contact.




Monday, April 24, 2017





When you live in Thailand or visited it for a holiday, you recognize a special language, what is not usual. 

We call this Bar Language.

For the bar-girls easy and quickly to learn.

The problem is, many take this bar language over as normal.

This is absolutely not the original Thai language.

The most of all the girls come from up-country (Isaan)

Not one speak Enlish, and the learn that from other bar girls, in Bangkok / Pattaya / Phuket / Samui / .....



What's your name

Where you come from

Where you stay

In what hotel you stay

Can I go with you

You have wife

You want short time

Be continued




A day around in Nana, Sukhumvit

A day around with my best friend Manos 
I go meet me friend Manos later on the day (18 April 2017
But I come earlier (11.00am) and drink a coffee with a nice girl / name Took and a waitress / Sunan in Hillary 4 bar in soi 4 Sukhumvit.
 About 12.30pm I walk to the Beergarden where I go meet my best friend Manos.
Not see him for a long time / health problems in the Netherlands.
Our appointment is 13.00pm.
Happy to to see him again, in good condition and health.
We sit a while in the Beergarden and walk back to soi 4.
We go back to Hillary 4.
Many girls recognize my friend, and all like to talk with him.
  The nice girl Took, came also sit with us.
I meet this girl also a month ago.
A smooth talker. 
Than we want move forwards en go to the other-side of the soi to Bar4.
We meet there another Facebook friend from Chicago / USA.
But we see to much drunk people in this bar, and pay our bill and walk to Hillary 2.
What a surprise, we meet 6 girls from before from Hillary 1.
Hillary 1 is break down, and go rebuild / open about November.
Many old friends come say hello, and all happy to see us back.
Lon time we sit there and talk to many friends.
Look same a reunion.
But on all come an end and we go eating in soi 8 at Det5
After go both home and meet each other again soon.


ps, The smooth talker Took, like to play with customers and not look so honestly.
Become several SMS on my mobile and later on my facebook, but look after-all fake.
Maybe update later. 


Saturday, April 22, 2017

A ordinary day in the Beergarden

A ordinary day in the Beergarden, Soi 7 Sukhumvit / Bangkok.
(Friday 21 April 2017) 
The Beergarden is a famous meeting-point in Bangkok
You meet there people from all around the world and from every level.
Most of the time, I go there Fridays-afternoon for drink a beer with friends an meet other (business)people. 
So also yesterday afternoon.
I go sit on the front of the big bar near a foreigner (look like a policeman) drink only water and do this fucking mouth not open / is busy with forms. 
On me other site sit 3 men from different nationalities.
We start to talk about several interests.
One drinks already to much and not want talk to me / he say not want talk with older people.
But I not care and talk with the other to guys. The are British, but live in Malaysia.
Than I walk to the toilet, and a bar-girl (never see her before) say hello to me.
When I come back from the toilet, I order a drink for her.
15 minutes later she come sit with us.
We have together a nice conversation / she come and live outside Bangkok.
She not look same all the other bar-girls with always there fake stories.
 At 6 o'clock I et hunry, and ask her to go eat with me in Foodland / Soi 5.
Than she start to talk that she not can go home so far outside Bangkok.
I polite and like her, and invite her to go with me.
All is ok, we finite dinner, and walk back to the Beergarden.
Than she start to ask ''how much you want give me''
I not give immediately a answer, and in the Beergarden she talk to me she had 08.00pm a appointment with a customer. 
Than I get a bad feeling, the whole nice afternoon and dinner get destroyed.
She want give me her phone number, but after this break I not want more.
Than you see ones again, the all bar-girls / hookers.
I take a taxi and go home.